In this blog I started to write a comment only to delete it forever and only this morning I found in one of my readings the words and thoughts that fit in with this story. I've been reading Joanna Weaver's book "Having a Mary Spirit" for worship. In it one of the sections talks about Broken Chains and Perpetual Feasts (p.193 - 195); now why would I use this illustration. Read it first and then my comments.
A man came home from work and found his 5 children outside, still in their pyjamas, playing in the mud, with empty food boxes and wrappers strewn around garden, The door of his wife's car was open, as was the front door to the house and no sign of the dog, walking in the door, he found ...an even bigger mess.
A lamp had been knocked over, the throw rug was against one wall, In the front
room the TV was on loudly with the cartoon channel, the family room was strewn with toys and various items of clothing.
In the kitchen, dishes filled the sink, breakfast food was spilled on the counter, the fridge door was open wide, dog food was spilled on the floor, a broken glass lay under the table, and a small pile of sand was spread by the back door.
He quickly headed up the stairs, stepping over toys and more piles of clothes, looking for his wife. He was worried she might be ill, or that something serious had happened. He was met with a small trickle of water as it made its way out the bathroom door. As he peered inside he found wet towels, scummy soap and more toys strewn over the floor. Miles of toilet paper lay in a heap and toothpaste had been smeared over the mirror and walls. As he rushed to the bedroom, he found his wife still curled up in the bed in her pyjamas, reading a novel...
She looked up at him, smiled and asked how his day went. He looked at her bewildered and asked, 'What happened here today?' She again smiled and answered, 'You know every day when you come home from work and you ask me what in the world do I do all day?...
''Yes," was his incredulous reply..
She answered, 'Well, today I didn't do it.’
I won't condemn this woman, it sounds like she decided to take a holiday from it all. However, with my Yr 11 Health class we have been covering the topic of addictions. There are more types then just ones about drugs etc. Words are the food for the soul.
Like the Indian parable about the son coming to the father about why we do things. He was told we have two wolves in our bodies. The Good one and the bad one. The son asked which one wins. The fathers' reply was which ever one you feed the most.
Now back to Joanna's comments on this she use to read Christian novels cover to cover. She could not put them down until she had finished it and then read another back to back. God asked her to go on a fast for a year. No novels for a whole year. For her it was giving up some thing for Lent. She then realised she needed to spend quiet quality time reading her bible It took her four years before she read novels again, but now the addictive power of reading has changed she now no longer devours them like potato chips, but can go months with out reading any. Sometimes she slips up but then uses Yo - you prayer (p.192,93) to ask for help from God to over come it. This is leaving everything to God and not worrying about it.